I have read for thousands of people over the years, I started reading online in 2013, prior to that I was reading for people at markets and expos, and one of the biggest pitfalls I have ever seen is this notion of holding onto the wrong partner because you think they are your soulmate. It’s one of the most disempowering ideas I’ve ever come across.
I see a lot of people stuck in relationships that are no longer working for them, it is clear that these people have grown apart and simply now going through the motions, I see a lot of people in relationships with the wrong person but because they tend to think they are with their soulmate, they will hang on to the relationship and keep trying to make it work.
Well let me tell you one thing, a soulmate relationship is not a toxic one, it is not one that you need to drag yourself through the motions for, a soulmate relationship is not one that is going to knock down your self-confidence and keep you trapped in an unhealthy relationship.
This is how love works: You attract the person who is a vibrational match for what you desire at the time. No more, no less. While you are a still a vibrational match for each other, the relationship is good. When your vibration changes or your partner’s vibration changes, you will no longer feel good about the relationship.
But that’s the point where people make their mistake – believing they must stay in a relationship created at a time when the vibrations were aligned but now are not.
When your vibration changes, you must honour it. It’s a sign that you are ready for someone new, its a sign to move on. You will feel the disconnect, you will feel the contrast, with your current partner. And what do a lot of people do when they feel that disconnect? They try to repair it. They try to get their partner back into vibrational harmony with them.
And sometimes that is possible, so sure, give it a try. But most of the time people just grow apart. It’s natural.
I’m not talking about small disagreements like where to go out to eat. I’m talking about major lifestyle changes. One partner wants kids and the other one doesn’t. One partner wants to sell their belongings and travel the world and the other partner wants to nest and build roots. One partner wants to save for retirement and the other wants to spend every dime they make.
If you cling to the idea that your partner is your soul mate, your one and only, and you two fall out of vibrational harmony with each other, you will end up fighting the natural flow. It’s like trying to go up the down escalator. Sure, you could do it for a while, but it’s tiring, and won’t get you too far.
There are many people out there who can find a person and stay in vibrational harmony with them for life. That’s fantastic. But the vast majority of people will need several different partners in order to go through life happy and fulfilled.
Don’t resist that. When the vibration changes and you are no longer a good match, release each other with love and find new partners. Staying with someone you are no longer a match for could ruin your life. It prevents you both from being happy.
So be brave and stay true to your heart. Release what no longer serves you so that you find something that does. It’s okay to let go of something that isn’t working for you. It’s the only way to make room for something that will. And trust me, when you are in a soulmate relationship you will just know, there will be a special feeling that never leaves, there is no toxicity and the relationship runs smoothly. Soulmate relationships are destined from the universe and the universe is always going to give you the best it can. Never mistake a toxic karmic relationship with a soulmate one. You will only end up keeping yourself trapped in a relationship that is not the right one.
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